I suspect that there are times when I utterly annoy those around me with optimism. Not that I don’t have my moments when I simply fall apart, as most of us do, but I am a perpetual “glass half full” sorta person. It helps me feel better when I can see the silver lining, focus on the up side of whatever I am experiencing. Today I had an incredible opportunity to help educate about metastatic breast cancer and meet some amazing fellow travelers. We attended a focus group looking at the side effects of MBC medications. And we put it ALL on the table (except as I now think about it, weight gain! oops) – fatigue and poor sleep, hair loss and loss of sex drive, perpetual hot flashes and more.
What I found most interesting is our immediate bond. In the 10 minutes we sat together in the waiting room, it was already clear that the facilitator was going to have a bit of a challenge in keeping us focused. There was so much to share, so much to commiserate about, and so much to celebrate. Without exception we each found a new spirit in our lives after our MBC diagnoses, and I think it’s fair to say we each preferred the paths and attitudes we’ve adopted since our diagnoses. We all seem to be living more fully on whatever time we have!
So with gratitude for my new friends, and those who brought us together, I’m signing off on yet another great day!