NaBloPoMo 23: Handing it Over

We all want our story heard, to make a lasting mark on the world (or at least our corner of it), to help others benefit from our experience. To that end, I’ve been writing a memoir off and on for the last five years (mostly off…). But I know that if I am going to put it out in the world, I need to put it out in the world.

It can be unnerving. Is it clear? Is it good? Does it make sense, and in the way I mean it to make sense? Is it a complete story? Is it worthy? Does it rise to the level of someone else, anyone else, really caring? Or has this been a five-year exercise in leaving something for my family? (Not a BAD thing!)

So right before I left for a Thanksgiving trip to visit my parents, I put it out in the world. I sent it to a coach for critique. I expected to be on edge, anxiously waiting. I’m not sure how much is trusting my coach, and how much is trusting my work, but I am eagerly moving on to projects that have been waiting in the wings for quite some time. So while I wait, exciting new things are on the horizon.

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6 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Karen Sutherland
    Nov 23, 2012 @ 17:39:47

    dear lori,

    wow! what a huge step you’ve taken! i will be BELIEVING for all you are hoping for with the results of your coach’s critique. as for the trust – perhaps it’s both – trust in your coach AND in your writing. at any rate, i am very happy for you to be in such a good place, being brave in the decision to consult your coach, and excited about the other projects you can now turn your attention to.

    love, xoxo,

    karen, TC

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  2. Susan
    Nov 23, 2012 @ 20:46:55

    Lori, just keep moving forward at your pace. I am so happy that you are getting to accomplish what you have mapped out for you. Hugs and XoXoXo-Susan

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  3. Marie
    Nov 23, 2012 @ 21:41:41

    I am excited for you Lori x

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  4. DrAttai
    Nov 24, 2012 @ 08:44:24

    I can’t wait to read it!

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  5. Catherine
    Nov 24, 2012 @ 17:51:29

    Putting it out there is a huge challenge; I so admire you sending it out there to be reviewed. That takes guts! ~Catherine

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  6. Beth Thompson
    Dec 01, 2012 @ 14:10:09

    As Tony Robbins says, If you want to take the island, you gotta burn the freaking boats. Congrats on bravely putting it out there and best of luck! Beth

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